There’s an inevitable thrill at the beginning of every relationship—the chase, the getting to know each other, the falling in love—it’s fun. But love is not a Fairy tale—there is no guaranteed happy-ever-after like you see in the movies.
It’s said that, every relationship will get boring after you’ve been together for years. The “in love” phase diminishes and it gets difficult. Suddenly you start seeing imperfections in your once perfect person and it’s no longer all fun and laughs. That’s when people tend to believe “the spark is gone” and goes looking for someone else to feel wanted, admired, and loved again. But that’s not how love works—at least not real love anyway.
If you keep walking away in search of that spark, you’ll never experience real unconditional love. When that spark is gone, that’s when real love begins. That’s when you need to remember why you’re with that person in the first place. That’s when you need to remind yourself of what that person means to you and what losing them would be like.
No matter whom you’re with, it’s always going to get boring; so you might as well be with someone who’s willing to love you unconditionally and never give up on you. Love is overcoming obstacles, facing challenges, fighting to be together, holding on and never letting go. So love someone when you don’t want to, when they aren’t the easiest to deal with, and when you find them hard to love—that’s the essence of real love.
Love is difficult to define and impossible to live without. Love is not a feeling. Love is a verb. Love is a commitment. Love is a choice.
What does love mean to you? Comment below and share your thoughts.
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